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"Words to Live By" Report on Ray Hunt Clinic By Sherry Jarvis
"Lesson Learned" By Cheryl Taylor
"Bonding With Your Horse At Camp" By Sherry Jarvis
"The Gift of Greatness" By Sherry Jarvis
Teaching "Feel"
It is every instructors challenge to communicate
new information to students in an effective manner which translates
into something applicable for the learner. It is even more challenging
to teach people how to "feel" something. The reason this is so
important is "feel" is all the horse has to go on.
When
teaching "feel" one must learn how to improve the timing of the
release with horses, because it is the "release that teaches". This is
a simple concept to put down on paper but a much more difficult one to
transfer to the hands and body of a rider.
As I watch horses being "schooled" at various
events it is obvious when any horse is having trouble, the human is
keeping continuous pressure on the horse, or releasing at the wrong
time. When the horse bucks or balks the human hangs on tighter, and
tries to push through it. Sometimes they even bang their legs on the
horse's sides or worse yet yank on the bit in frustration. The rider
is unknowingly contributing to the behavior they are trying to fix.
The
key principles of horsemanship that must be applied to avoid the above
scenerio are: "set it up and wait"; "reward the slightest try";
"less is more"; "less sooner instead of more later"; and the list goes
on!
Knowing what
something is supposed to "feel like" helps to solve a lot of problems.
However you can't experience "feel" from the words on a page, by
watching a video, or sending your horse to a trainer. But there are
lots of exercises and simulations that you can do to set yourself up
for success.
When a person finally
"feels the feel" there is nothing like it, then both the horse and
human smile with relief and joy. Those smiles are what keep me going
down the road to help the next group of open-minded folks.
"WORDS TO LIVE BY"
A Report on Ray Hunt Clinic
“You’re not working on your horse, you’re working on yourself.”
“Believe in your horse, trust him!”
“Prepare to position for transition.”
“Always direct and then support.”
“Think, have a plan.”
“Ride the horse not your saddle, keep him between your legs and hands.”
“How little can you do?”
“Give your horse a job to do.”
“Only perfect practice makes perfect.”
“You’re alright, you’re doing ok.”
These are some of the phrases that stick in my mind as I reflect back
on my participation in the recent Ray Hunt clinic at Chance Ridge in
Elkhorn, NE hosted by Burton and Cindy Smith. Ray has tremendous
insight about horses’ attitudes and how to get people to tune in to the
horse and communicate with clarity. He doesn’t miss a thing. It felt
like he could see right through every movement by reading both horse
and rider with complete accuracy.
It was great to be in the presence of his spirit. He was not only
friendly and funny, he was humble. He commented about not being
righteous by saying, “no one is right and no one is wrong”. And then he
taught us how the horse displays that to us. He gets you to think about
things and always talks from the horse’s point of view. Perched from
his chair above the arena he directed us with both encouragement and
constructive criticism. Ray answered each person’s question with
honesty, yet presented it in a way that it caused us to figure some it
out on our own. I believe he was trying to empower us by causing us to
think deeper about what we are doing and why.
The emphasis seemed to be on how important the little things are. Most
of the time we tend to focus on the big things, like collection,
sliding stops, lead changes, bits & tools etc. Ray reinforced to us
that problems and flaws in our performance could be traced back to
something very simple. He also stressed that we need to give the horse
plenty of time, because many of us seem to get in a big hurry. The
lesson was keep the basics going even while advancing and take the time
it takes. It is very interesting how much the human is responsible for
in the horse. I realized it is my job to adjust to fit the situation,
and that no matter what happens I have to keep calm and focused with my
first priority to honor the horse. The dignity of the horse comes first
with Ray at all times. There is no place for a puffed up ego in good
horsemanship.
I learned the value of transitions, preparing for them, and having a
plan in your head at all times. A horse will wander around aimlessly
without guidance. I saw a difference in the expression on the horse’s
face when the rider had a plan and executed it. It seemed to build
trust and confidence in the horse. You could tell when the message got
from the horse’s mind through his emotions, and down through his body
to his feet. Ray helped us achieve this by constant transitions. He
didn’t let us do any one thing for very long, so it kept the horse’s
attention and therefore helped improve the way the horse moved.
I realized when I ride at home I don’t make that many changes in a
session, nor did I have a plan to do it. I may have gotten in a rut
with the same old routine everyday. It was a good wake up call for me
to get my horse more under me and more ready to do a lot of different
things and make a lot of changes. I’m going to call it “the keep him guessing game.”
I will also remember Ray’s warning to us NOT TO DRILL our horses. He
said when you drill a horse it doesn’t do any good. He said you have to
learn how to recognize before it becomes a drill. You have to know when
you’ve done enough and when to quit, and then you will make dramatic
changes. If you will keep it interesting for your horse he will stay
alive in his mind and in his feet. He will stay connected to you.
I noticed that over the three days Ray kept saying the exact same
things over and over. It seemed to mean more and more each time he
repeated it. There were people and horses attending from all different
skills, levels and backgrounds. Even with the diversity Ray was
conscious of each horse and rider and their different needs. Some may
have gotten the message better than others, but I’m sure that everyone
grew as a result of the experience whether an observer or participant.
These principles and concepts take time to soak in and require lots of
dedication and perspiration to bring them into practice.
One of my favorite parts of the clinic was watching the way Ray was
able to communicate to his 18-year old grandson Kalon, and how well he
listened. On the third day this young man was working with a mare in
the colt-starting portion of the clinic because the girl who owned it
had a little accident with this horse first thing that morning. It
really impressed me that even if Kalon didn’t know whether the horse
was ready or not, Ray knew, and he trusted his grandfather every step
of the way.
Kalon put out a tremendous amount of effort with this horse and took
the colt to the next level with his grandfather’s help. Kalon had both
grit, perseverance, and confidence even though I perceived he was
getting frustrated a few times, as this mare was what some may call “a difficult horse.” I
don’t think Ray thought of her this way. He was extremely conscious of
the self-preservation behaviors the mare held on to with perseverance.
The horse came out good in the end, even though some of us may have
been wondering about it a few times during the process.
The first two days of the class the colt starting looked deceptively
simple. If we watch someone else make it look fairly easy we can get
ourselves in trouble because we don’t realize that we didn’t comprehend
all that we saw. I have noticed that the trouble in colt starting
usually happens after the first few rides. Everything seems to be going
along fine, and then all of a sudden something happens. Maybe we let
our guard down too much, or the horse finally realizes what may be
happening and chooses to react mindlessly out of fear. When this
happens the horse needs immediate guidance with strong leadership from
the human. And if we miss it, he’ll realize we don’t have the answers
he needs, but Mother Nature does. So he may stop listening to us and
start listening to his primal instincts. The dust is settling around us
before we even realize it has started and we wonder what just happened.
Ray stressed how we need to always pay attention because it could
happen a year from the first ride. The effect our actions and
interactions have on this horse may show now, and they may not show up
until later, but they will show up. I realized how mentally,
emotionally and physically fit we have to be to start a colt in a way
that is best for each individual horse.
The horse learns what he lives and he lives what he learns. Every horse
owner is a trainer whether they get paid for it in cash or not. Some do
it better than others. Some are driven by ego and some aren’t. Some
figure it out on their own, others need lots of help. Some are born
with it and others have to work real hard at it. One thing I remember
Ray said is “anybody can do this with enough heart and desire.” Ray inspired me to even greater excellence for the benefit of my friend the horse. I loved the way he kept calling the horse “his friend.” With great appreciation I want to thank Ray for making the world a better place for “our friend” the horse!
A hug and smile from Ray at the end of the class was enough for me to
know that I was in the right place at the right time. My only
disappointment was that there weren’t more horse people in attendance
to absorb a little more knowledge and savvy from a great teacher and
horseman and that it was over so quickly.
Sherry Jarvis
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LESSONS LEARNED FROM CHERYL
One of the students from the clinic in Broken
Bow wrote a very nice review of some things she learned this weekend. She is
not a beginner to natural horsemanship and is quite an accomplished rider. I
thought her comments were worthy to pass on to others as a learning tool. Here
is what she wrote:
One thing I know that really came home this weekend is the importance of being
physically fit for my horse. Pat Parelli says we need to be mentally,
emotionally and physically fit for our horse. It is one of the 4
responsibilities of the rider.
On Saturday morning, Sherry had me working on the draw at a trot. She told me
to run backwards and Shade just kept walking. Sherry kept saying faster and I
kept trying. I finally was fast enough that I got two steps of trot from Shade.
When Sherry asked what I had learned, I said I need to learn to run backwards!
It is tough! I was sure I was going to land on my butt!! Lesson learned-walking
backwards fast is not enough for us, practice running backwards without your
horse until you can do it well.
Then in the afternoon Sherry did the Saddling and Mounting demo. I had a
terrible time dragging myself onto Shade. At that moment I was remembering the
discussion on this Board about mounting and mounting blocks. So I went home and
thought about it. When I was preparing for my level one test (way back in 2003)
I was walking 2 miles a day and stepping up on a chair leading with both legs
20 times every night. Then I was practicing my mounting from both sides every
day. I passed the mounting with no difficulty. What happened? Well, no more
walking, no more chair exercises and mounting one time from the left whenever I
ride.
Sunday I shared this revelation with Sherry and the class and she gave me an
extra tip. On the three bounces to mount, think of them as phases, each bounce
a little springier. Sunday mounting went much better. But I know I need to get
back into a conditioning program if I am serious about passing level two (and I
am Sherry!) and upholding my responsibility to my horse.
My third BFO moment came Sunday afternoon when we were preparing for Bulls eye.
Sherry was giving instructions and told us to focus on the track we wanted to
make around our cone. I have been playing this game for 2 years focusing on the
cone. I always thought Shade wanted to go to the center because that was the
"sweet spot" where she could rest. Wrong! She was going to the cone
because I was focusing ON THE CONE! When I focused on the circle track, she was
happy to stay out there.
I had a wonderful time this weekend. I love watching Sherry ride, so glad she
is healing and back in the saddle. Thanks Sherry!
The same student wrote a very good description of how to mount properly.
For mounting the steps are:
1. Move the saddle horn (pommel) back and forth to get the horse to balance
himself.
2. Hold the "rein in the mane" (left hand for left side mount). Give
the horse slack on the opposite side, and loose enough on mounting side that
horse doesn't turn head.
3. Face the horse's tail and reach for the stirrup (right hand for left side
mount), put foot in stirrup.
4. Hold saddle horn (pommel) with right hand and hop around until you are able
to look your horse in the eye.
5. Bounce up and down 3 times, step up in the stirrup and position your hips
forward. This is a power position if the horse moves, you can go with him.
6. Reach over the horse and rub/pet his right shoulder to "ask
permission" to swing your leg over.
7. Swing your leg over and sit down gently, pick up other stirrup.
On step #5 (my numbering system) Sherry was coaching me to think of my 3
hops/bounces in phases and put more energy and spring into each bounce to use
the momentum to help step up in the stirrup. Bounce #1 I'm thinking of getting
on, #2 I will get up, #3 I promise to get up there! (Sherry-did I forget
anything?)
For the Level One test, I had to step up and down 3 times before I could swing
my leg over. Both sides. Each step up is a little more difficult. So I knew I
had to attain a certain level of fitness to pass. Being the goal oriented
person I am, I did what I needed. Then being the busy human I am, I fell back
to my lazy ways.
In my younger days I rode 16+ hand horses, English. No trouble getting on. Now
that I am "mature" I find it a challenge to mount a 14.3 hand horse,
western with savvy. Sometimes it takes an event you make that lesson sink in.
Sherry's clinic this weekend was such an event. I know where I want to go, and
day by day I'm learning what it will take to get there.
Thanks Sherry, for being there. Cheryl
BONDING AT CAMP
There is no feeling better than when your horse
spots you coming whinnies at you and leaves his friends or food to hang
out with you. It is an honor to be viewed by your horse as a worthy
partner who is fun & interesting. With this kind of
relationship you'd be able to do anything with your horse because of a
foundation based on trust & respect.
Learning
how to interact with horses with confidence, leadership and
communication are the keys to bonding with a horse. The fastest way to
learn these skills is to participate in a camp or clinic where you
don't have anything else to do but bond with your horse. Lack of
quality time with your horse is often your worst enemy.
You
will have hands on help over several days to develop your skills as a
loving and effective leader in order to get better performance results
with your horse.
You
will also have practice time alone with your horse, sharing and
reflections times, plus group activities and relaxing trail rides.
So if your horse has been fighting, ignoring or
avoiding you, seems confused or in control, then it will be worth the
time, money, and risk of feeling or looking foolish to gain an even
deeper bond with your horse by attending a camp or clinic.
Because
nature has designed the horse to seek out and follow a confident leader
for survival, you can very quickly establish yourself as the one your
horse will look to for guidance, safety, comfort, and play. As you
become a herd of two with you as the fair yet firm alpha a lot of the
problems you may have had with your horse will start to disappear.
As a horse owner I know you love your horses and
are committed to giving them the best physical care possible. I'm sure
you will agree that your horse also deserves your very best effort at
communication as well.
As
a facilitator and participant in these camps I have discovered that you
will learn a lot about yourself through simple interactions with
horses. You will begin to see the similarities of relating with horses
to your own life experiences.
You
will find this is more than a horse training camp. It may well become a
life changing experience. The lessons learned will transfer as positive
growth in other areas of your life. By the end of a camp you will have
new wings of confidence that will help you fly to the next level in
your horsemanship journey.
You can read
other testimonials by clicking on the above success stories. These are folks just like you who have
discovered how to have an even deeper bond with their horse by gaining
more confidence, leadership and communication skills.
Gift of Greatness
As I think
of our nation I think of greatness and the many men and women who have
made it great. Few of us will ever do anything that will be recognized
or remembered by more than a handful of people, but that doesn’t make
us any less important or special. I believe each and every person is
unique with value and has a purpose in life. However, true greatness
comes along so rarely that when we see it we want to touch it and we
want a chance to be a part of it.
There are a few horsemen who are truly great! They make it all look so
easy and even magical. We can see the real connection they have with
the horse. It is undeniable. A truly great horseman has a way of
helping the horse feel good about whatever they ask him to do. They
believe in the horse, that there are no good or bad horses, only horses
that have or haven’t been given the chance to develop his own
confidence and abilities with clear communication and positive
motivation.
When a person wants to become an artisan of horsemanship it is sort of
like developing a great concert pianist. It doesn’t happen over night
just because you bought a nice expensive grand piano. It takes years of
foundational lessons with hours of practicing scales, chords, finger
positions, feel of the keys, rhythm, tempo, balance, softness,
loudness, various styles, and so much more. Eventually the great
pianist will progressively begin to play more difficult scores until
the sounds they can produce from the ivory keys are polished into
beautiful music. Producing a beautiful harmonious ride on a consistent
basis which feels good to both the horse and rider is a gift of
greatness. But you can bet there was a lot of hard work, patience, and
practice which went into that greatness.
The art of horsemanship means developing a horse to be more than it
could ever be without you. All horses have the potential to be
beautiful partners moving confidently and gracefully while being
ridden. With some horses it takes a great horseman in order to find
that balance, not all horses can tolerate mediocre horsemanship.
There comes a point when all great horsemen may have to ask themselves
these questions: “How can I help this horse become the horse that I
seek? How can I help him feel better about what I am asking him to do
and who I am asking him to be? After all you picked the horse he didn’t
pick you.
Sherry Jarvis"Not only does talent create its own opportunities, but intense desire will create its own talents."
- Bruce Lee