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WIN YOUR HORSE'S HEART
TABLE OF CONTENTS:
Poem:
Horses in my Soul
Authors Note:
Finding Feel
Forward:
Horse Sense. Do you have it?
Introduction:
Letting Go and Being Open to Change
Carrots or Whips?
Language and Lifestyle
Principles: Enrich life and Ensure Success
Chapter 1 Natural vs. Normal
The Unexplainable Attraction to Horses
Define Natural horsemanship
That horse has heart! Becoming Extraordinary
The Principles Behind the Techniques
A Turning Point
GINGER: Kids are Naturally Natural and a Good Pony is Joy to the Soul
Chapter 2 Reality vs. Dreams
Living in the Reality of the Moment
First Priority is Dignity of the Horse
A Holistic Approach to Setting Realistic Goals
Plan and Believe to Live Your Dreams
JOBE: Always A Winner
Chapter 3 Partnership vs. Ownership
Responsible Horse Care
Qualifications for Partnership
Cooperation, Joint Rights and Responsibilities
Gypsy: My Very Own Horse
Chapter 4 Knowledge vs. Frustration
Tears of Frustration or the Joy of Effectiveness
Defensive Horse Behaviors and Remedies
Knowledge; Best Friend or Worst Enemy
Think, Have a Plan, Develop Solutions
A Teachable Heart and a Desire for Change
Slick: A Road of Brokenness
Chapter 5 Attitude vs. Tools & Techniques
Too Lenient, Too Strict, and Just Right
Doing Less Than it Takes and Quitting Too Soon
Doing More Than it Takes and Quitting Too Late
Why Punishment Doesn’t Work
The Self Confident Attitude of Effective Leaders
Cultivating Positive Habits
Dolly: A New Beginning
Chapter 6 Fear vs. Confidence
Conquering Fear
Dealing with the Horse’s Fears
The Emergency Stop
Emotional and Mental Control Precede Physical Control
Confident Leadership
Command of Horses Begin with Command of Self
Choices Which Build More Confidence
Cisco: The Confidence Builder
Chapter 7 Time: Patience vs. Impatience
Taking the Time it Takes in the Long Run is Quicker
Knowing When to Quit
Consistent Progression Over Time is Key
Quick Fixes Don’t Produce Permanent Changes
Rearing and Clubs
Trailers, Ropes, Blindfolds and Bribery
What’s the Hurry?
Sunshine: Prayers of Patience
Poem:
Meandering with Sunshine in the Shade
Final Thoughts:
The Journey Continues
Giddy up, Let’s Go
Poem:
Trail of Inspiration for the Journey
Excerpt from Robert Browning’s “Paracelsus”
Summary
The Price We Pay
Principles to Live By
Cultivate Important Attitudes
Value Time
Develop Skills
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